I think the following strategy is useful for succeeding in life:
Admit that you want to become more able and competent.
However, note that you won't mind "losing", if it means avoiding hurting yourself or others, or even avoiding remaining miserable or unhappy for too long. ( "You gotta know when to walk away." )
“It is better to be considered a "sucker" (= generous) than to acquire an enemy.”
I may have competitors, but not only will I not try to immorally hinder them, but will encourage them, and try to publicly share my knowledge, thoughts, and opinions with them (given the time frame), and even recommend them to my customers or fans.
The important thing is to have fun ( geeks / "amateurs" ), identify with the cause, and have a well-rounded life. Perhaps even prolong the 'fight'.
Also see the Golden Rule.