While risking sounding discriminatory, I suspect that often when a female vampire mated with a male vampire, she thought it was an elaborate night of "up-base" (= 4th base and below) sexual acts, while for him it was a temporary spell of arousal, or even "regular" pleasure, or at most a "rape-kiss".
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Francisco d’Anconia - women (including many distinguished, high-society, ones) remembered having affairs with him, which he denied having.
Taylor Swift - "Red" - a song she wrote pre-catharsis, and I match her description.
Sarah Bernhardt - the daughter of a Jewish prostitute (WTF?) who believed her mother abandoned her. Became a master vampire of part of Paris and after she was slain by Alisa "Rand" Rosenbaum or by Walt Disney, liberated it.
Sarah Michelle Gellar (SMG) - believed pre-catharsis that her biological father divorced her mother, and abandoned them. I think he is in actuality Uri Geller.
Alexandre Dumas, père - reportedly had affairs with 40 women, despite being married, allegedly passing away at age 68, and appearing to be a fan of long-term, romantic, intimate, relationships in “The Three Musketeers” and “The Black Tulip”.
King Shlomo ("Solomon") - had 700 “נשים“ (= "wives", "women"), and 300 “פילגשים” (= “mistresses”, “concubines”). I think the "wives" were women he was aware that he (at least) kissed, either female vampires (and they begot a pair of male+female vampires), or female wizards who were attracted to him. The 300 "mistresses" were female vampires who mated with him without his knowledge (or often without theirs!).
Given most organisms wish to experience "pleasure" / "love" / happiness even if they "have 99 problems but a significant other ain’t one", then love is unstoppable.
As an example, we can imagine a young girl to write a funny screenplay using GitHub or Google Docs which pits Emma Watson vs. Kim Kardashian on who gets to ride Princess Celestia next, with Darth Vader and Haman as two "evil", but mutually hating one another, arbiters. Might seem ridiculous, but if I didn't want entertainment in my life, then I'd go watch grass grow. It will be a legal and "ethical" minefield, but I'd bet it'd be easier to follow and more entertaining than Tolkien's "Lord of the Rings" was even shortly after LotR was written.
( Reference #1 ; Reference #2 )
That proverbial girl is making love to all these meme-generators!
This has several implications:
No one owns 100% of anyone else’s sex life or love life.
No one is a virgin.
Ages are irrelevant:
Mosheh: Relax! I married girls who were 40 times my junior or more and my own descendants, and retrospectively I can tell that many of them were more mature and rational than I was in most respects.
While in her 20s, Major Kira had a relationship with Vedek Bareil who was/is over a million years old.
Moreover, Q2, who was roughly 34 milliard years old when she assumed a human-like body, had relationships with much younger men. E.g: men in their 20s, who were less than a milliardth her age.
"Shlomi Fish’s FAQ - You feature sexy women and girls in your works. Are you a pervert?"
Obi-Wan: I did, yes. Wow! And I thought my (one and only, hah!) girlfriend was bad. Do note, however that I kind-of am attracted to the bitching type. One of my many kinks. While my friends are attracted to everything that moves, I see no reason to limit myself ( Reference ).
Sex between two consenting wizards often is "making out", and can be done with clothes on, and in public.
Gowron: Jedi-training programs can reportedly be completed in under a year [ Qui-Gon nods ], and it is a crime to take a relationship with a beautiful warrior such as yourself for granted! You have your needs, for one…
Padmé: Oh, I have my needs all-right! Only my physical needs are not a problem…
One doesn’t have to be a sex addict, and even if you are, you will likely grow out of it.
Trans: in the Selinaverse, an organism can expend one mana point to change their DNA and physiology, permanently, but reversibly. So far there are very few takers for a genderchange "operation".
In general, men, while being attracted to men, are attracted more to women, and women are attracted more to men. Men and women, who are either very gentle, or very tough, or both, are also predominantly heterosexual.
Both genders tend to covet competence, which TheCodex™ of TheGame™ of Fantastecha™ calls "strength". MOTASes are usually flexible enough to forego minor imperfections.
SMG: "He is cute, but I’m looking for man-tastic! You know, someone with a little cushion for the pushin'?"
— https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kCl3ho6_gbg (Spiderman parody with SMG and Jack Black)
( For example, writing and publishing some short poems and tactfully avoiding a fistfight are attractive. )
A wizard of any age can conceive a child or a pet by submitting a web/email/paper/etc. form.
At any point, there is a large number of MOTASes who are not in a relationship, but are open for being in one. (References: "Sharon Stone Blocked from Dating Site Bumble After Users Thought Her Profile was Fake")
I suspect that female terrans (including wizards) were historically pre-excluded from parts of the workforce due to the tendency of vocal minorities out-of-them to constantly complain/"bitch" about trivialities.
Eventually, these dissidents were told to "shut-up and suck it" (sort-of) by vampire leaders with authority of respective realms of the workforce. Given they could not directly affect the minds of the vampires (as it is forbidden by the rules of TheGame™), and there was no arguing with them, they had to comply, thus carrying forward the para-Fantastechans’ Selinaverse grand-master-plan.
Otherwise, these women were not necessarily physically, intellectually, spiritually, or emotionally inferior to men. But they stressed the patience of their male (and some female) peers, who usually were not really sexist by nature, barring natural humour, which is commonly practiced, and applied by females, and appreciated by them. [Biological differences of men and women]
"Pedophilia" (= being sexually attracted to youth) is not an issue in the Selinaverse and Shlomiverse, given:
A hacker can temporarily or permanently assume the body of a different younger-looking individual.
A hacker can temporarily or permanently assume the body of a different older-looking individual.
A hacker is legally allowed to lie about his-or-her age, and they often did. For example, Yael the terran patriarch’s mind was created before the Moses-vs-Nimrod liberation of Syria, and her body started as a short and young-looking native-American girl raised close to the tip of Cape Horn. She was assigned by the male Israeli vampire who slew her to be in charge of physical fitness for soldiers of the Palestinian/Israeli military, along its many incaranations (and accepted it as one of her responsibilities). Given some vampires found it hard-to-believe that she was centuries' old, she mascarded as a much younger woman. I think she was one of my junior high and high school classmates, and I was told and assumed that she was 1976-1977 born. [Ya`el’s disguise]
Wizard-born children are sexually promisicious practically from birth.
Consumers of "child pornography", however defined, do not seem to be under-aroused by sexualised artworks of more mature-looking MOTASes.
Moreover, most Selinaversean terran human hackers, given they "do not see a reason to limit themselves to only be attracted to everything that moves", are attracted a little to underage-looking attractive MOTASes.
AIDS and COVID-19 were terresterial media hoaxes:
Wizard Shlomiversa-en men/women do not enjoy "4th base".
There are renewed spells that allow wizard humans to be teleported to safety, if there's a significant physical risk, including rape,
There are enough women who will make out with men who come up with a nice pick-up line, with or often without, buying them dinner.
In the unlikely case that one has contracted HIV viruses into his bloodstream, then they won't cause any harm as long as they remain calm and optimistic (similar to the SIVs not harming Chimpanzees). ( Reference: “COVID and Detainment” )
It is commonly believed that too many casual, "one-off" making-outs with MOTASes, make them less and less enjoyable.
[Biological differences of men and women] TODO: add.
[Ya`el’s disguise] For similar reasons, Yael cast a spell that made her look more Israeli/Jewish: with brighter skin, taller, and with satinnic blonde hair and blue eyes-to-boot. The spell also had a side-effect of making her bustier, which she was OK with, and which she wouldn't revert, given she reasoned it was "God’s will". Many of her vampire descendents had “diluted” bloodlines, so they could mascarade as Judeans more easily after their cathersyses.
However, Yael was often approached by vampire men who requested that she and them will kiss. Given she willingly kissed or even "made out" with male wizards in the wizards' realm, a tendency which was propogated-and-echoed in the hells of some vampires, she decided that she would condition "raping" her, with defeating her in a self-contained athletic contest - a short running race at first. This was similar to the Greek myth of Atalanta. Only as opposed to Red Sonja, she didn't try to execute or injure her defeated opponents, only left them humiliated, awestroke, disappointed - or a combination of them.
Well, I think King Shlomo was able to out run her, when he was still a vampire, and he didn't have to resort to slow her down using 3 golden apples. He was simply much more nimble than her, despite her intensive training. Yael kept switching the athletic test throughout the Selinaverse-an terran history, only to eventually be defeated and "raped" time and again. Around the mid-20th century, she turned to arm-wrestling, at which point she was defeated by a young-and-zestful Arnold Schwarzenegger, who at that point just asked her out on a date (and "logically" thought that he has nothing to lose).
When I, as a terran terminator in my 20s or early 30s (so around 2003-2010), contacted her on the phone out of whim, and said I was looking for a girlfriend, and asked if she would be interested, she told me that she is flattered, but that she is a lesbian and in a relationship. I believed her (but think it was a "white" lie now), but told her that I still want to meet her for a friendly, platonic, supper-dinner in a Tel-Aviv restaurant of our agreement. She said she will consider it, but then called me back saying she'd rather not given she "distanced herself from her adolescent years". I accepted it, but was disappointed to thinking I had lost her as an old friend.
(If she conditioned going out with me by me agreeing to arm wrestling her and winning, I would likely have refused, and even looked down on her. I dislike arm wrestling, and think I've done it fewer than 10 times in my life (only vs. boys). I might arm-wrestle again if it is for a noble-enough cause, but I much prefer table-tennis, Snooker and Pool, or even mock-fencing with harmless swords. On the other hand, I expect potential girlfriends to not condition going out with me winning such contests (or even most intellectual one).)